Women are known to be very open and extremely talkative creatures in
comparison with men. But you`ll get surprised that not only men have
some things to hide, but women also have some secrets. There is a
mystery in every woman for a man to clear up. But unfortunately, only a
few of them succeed. Though it is not that complicated to understand a
woman, men have great difficulties with it. So here are some women`s
secrets which I hope will help you to clear up the situation.
1. They want men to take initiative

It is a very important thing. We do not like to take care, to plan
and to do all sorts of things by ourselves. We want men to take
initiative. Though, we never tell about it, you should know that it is
important that you carry out some difficult tasks or surprise us. When a
man takes initiative it means that he is involved, that he is attentive
and caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of thing it is – list
of stuff to buy, or prepare dinner, or plan your next holiday.
2. They want to be surprised more often

All women go crazy with surprises, so we secretly dream about our
partner to show his creativity and to astonish us as frequently as
possible. Even a small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman feel
special and loved. It shouldn’t be an expensive gift, simply showing
your initiative, concern and deep affection are priceless. It is not
difficult, just be open and careful to your lady. When she realizes the
fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be
soon rewarded.
3. They are afraid that another women attract him more

It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man`s
life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for
it is quite simple, we all want to have something that we can`t have. So
women are afraid that their man`s heart may be stolen or he will start
fantasizing about another woman. There is nothing worse for a woman than
that.
4. They want men to be sincere

Every person wants his\her partner to be always open and sincere no
matter what. Nobody likes being fooled. And, of course, women are no
exception. We can forgive a lot of things but not lies. Irrespective of
the situation or how bad your fault is, a woman will always hear you out
and even help you to solve the problem.
5. They notice and understand body language

Women are known to have a sixth sense, especially if it concerns
relationships. We always notice and analyze all small details in another
person, and that includes body language of our partners. So we usually
are aware of his sympathy to a colleague, which we have never met. Once
we notice something suspicious, it starts bothering us, though we may
not be even aware of what exactly annoys us. And if a woman suspects
something, she will be very upset when her man doesn`t spend time with
her but stays in the office.
6. They agree with “Guy Time”

That is another secret that only a few men know about. A lot of women
actually agree with “guy time”. We understand perfectly well that our
husbands, boyfriends need some space for themselves, and that it is very
important for them to spend some time with friends, watching football
matches, drinking beer or playing various kinds of games. The only
problem here may be when a woman feels lack of attention, while a man
focuses only on spending time with friends.
7. They want their friends to like us

No woman will say this out loud. But it is so. His friends are very
important for our men, so we want them to like us. This means that we
want to show how we love our partner and what a beautiful person he is.
Such tendency also helps to avoid unnecessary conflicts and arguments if
we don`t like the friends or vice versa. Another reason for that is
that his friends` sympathy for you will influence your partner`s
decisions in various ways, which is, of course, to our advantage.
8. They need space

If a woman tells that she needs space, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t
want to see you so don’t get in your car and drive away for hours. She
just wants understanding. Your girlfriend or wife wants you to know that
she has important things to do and you need to assume that she really
means what she says.
9. They want them to be honest

Every woman wants her man to be honest. So if your woman looks fat in
that dress, don’t say “You look gorgeous.” Women always know how they
look. Don’t be afraid to tell her that she’s put on several pounds, but
still she looks amazing. Show your woman that you love her for who she
is. You may even suggest her to exercise together. She will definitely
appreciate your honest opinion.
So these are 9 things that women usually keep in secret from their
partners, but should definitely know about them. Sure, these are only a
few things; the list may be much longer. What do you usually hide from
your man? I`m eager to know, and I`m sure not only me!
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